Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Heading toward the preparation finish line...

Hello, all.  Stikki here, with what could very well be the last blog post of our lives as singles.

It's Wednesday night, we've just finished a terrible dinner that I (Steve) prepared.  I did a little experimenting in the kitchen and it didn't pay off.  At all.  It tasted pretty awful, if you want to know the truth.  Not even points for trying.  That bad.

But now it's 8 o'clock, and I'm realizing that six o'clock Friday night is less than 48 hours away.  If you care to think about us at that moment, you'll know that at about 6:30 that we'll be officially married.  Awesome.

Which means that 71 hours from now things will just be getting started at the Fox, and we'll finally get to see a room full of faces from all facets of our lives in one place, together.  Again... awesome.

If any of you need anything, especially if you're traveling in from out of town and need advice about our fair Atlanta, please don't hesitate to give either of us a call or drop us a line via email.  We'll do everything we can to help make your visit a good one.

So that should about do it from us here.  We've got just a few loose ends to tie up in the execution of our planning, but nothing major.  We're really just looking forward to an amazing weekend.  

See you soon, everybody.

-Stikki


Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Inching ever closer...


Wow. Has it really been over a month since we last posted here?  That's crazy.  Then again, you know what Groucho Marx used to say: "Time flies like an arrow.  Fruit flies like a banana."
Hello all.  Steve here, writing to you from Nikki's couch as we continue to put the finishing touches on planning the big event.  Today was actually the first day in over a month that we didn't get a single response card back in the mail, mainly because all of you have sent yours back.  As for those of you who haven't... you know who you are.  Because we've called you and gotten your responses.  Looking forward to seeing most of you, and will miss those who have sent their regrets.

For those of you who are readying yourselves for a visit to our fair city, please don't hesitate to let us know if there's anything we can do to help make your stay an easier and more enjoyable one.  If we don't have the information you're looking for we're confident we can find it easily.  

Really, really, really looking forward to seeing everyone just fifteen short days from now.

All the best,

Stikki

Friday, January 4, 2008

Everything you need to know about the Stikki wedding reception


Hello everybody.  Steve here.

If you're reading this blog for the first time, it's probably because you've just received the invitation to our wedding reception.  Welcome.  If you've got the time, you might want to scroll down and read some of the previous posts.  Not only are most of them funny and informative, but in some areas reading them satisfies community service requirements for various municipal courts.  Everybody wins!

Here's the run down on everything we think you should know; you'll get your chance to ask questions at the end.  ;-)

Hotels:
As you have probably read on the accommodations section of our invitation, Nikki has reserved blocks of rooms at both the Renaissance Atlanta Downtown and Hotel Indigo.  Both are within walking distance of our festivities and centrally located to a lot of fantastic restaurants, goods, and services.  If anyone traveling to Atlanta from out of town would like more hotel options based on price, location, or amenities, please write to us at stikkiwedding@gmail.com and we'd be more than happy to steer you in the right direction. 

Attire:
For those of you who haven't spent much time in Atlanta in late winter, be ready for anything.  In the last decade, this time of year has seen everything from crippling ice storms to shorts and t-shirts sunshine.  Obviously as we get closer to the big day we'll all have to keep an eye on the weather report.  The Farmer's Almanac for 2008 does say that this winter will be favorable for the barley crop, so you know what that means!  Fingers crossed.

Reception attire is pretty much anything goes. We're saying "cocktail attire" but don't bother buying something new unless you're just looking for an excuse.   Some will wear Sunday best while a few will party it up in formal wear.  At the end of the day your attendance is more important to us than what you're wearing.

Oh man.  Their our times in are lives when sometimes won will spontaneously forget witch spelling is correct four certain words.  This is won of those times.  Give it a minute.  It'll pass hear before ewe no it.

Ahh.  There we go.  Moving on...

Transit:
If you're flying in from out of town, there are a lot of ways to get around in Atlanta.  If you're not up for renting a car for your visit, a cab from the airport will run you about 30-35 bucks to Midtown.  Once you reach Midtown chances are really good you'll be able walk to everything you could ever need while you're here.  Atlanta's commuter rail system, MARTA, also has a line that will take you quickly and easily from the airport to the North Avenue stop, within blocks of our hotels and The Fabulous Fox Theater, where we're having our reception.  

Wedding and Reception:
As most of you know, Nikki and I will be getting married in a traditional ceremony on the evening of Leap Day, Friday, February 29th, attended and witnessed by our immediate family.  We appreciate everyone's understanding in our decision to keep our wedding ceremony an intimate gathering.  We don't by any means want to anyone to feel slighted, and certainly hope that everyone will still want to join us to celebrate on Saturday evening.

These are the things I can think of at this point that need to be covered.  More posts as we think of things we need to add.  Write if you have any questions and we'll answer here.

Thanks, everybody.

-S

Anticipation.



Starting work on the promised big update now.  Apologies to loyal Stikki Wedding Central reader Michelle for the delay.

In the meantime, look what popped up in the Dalton Daily Citizen last Sunday!

Incidentally, a big thank you to the DDC for the promotion.  Now it looks like I'm kind of a big deal.  Ha!

-S

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

You've got mail!


Happy New Year, everybody.  

Invitations went out Monday, and it sounds like some of you might have gotten yours starting today.

Big update here at Stikki Wedding Central tonight with lots of new information.  Check back in a few hours for more details.

-Steve

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Preemptive post

Nikki here. I've put a note on my calendar to try to post something every 2 weeks, lest MMH start accusing me of being a slacker. I'm not sure anyone else is reading these, but Michelle is a dedicated fan.

Things have been fairly slow lately, relative to the pace of things when we first started planning. I'm in midst of cake tasting, which is really my vindication upon the entire wedding industry. Cyndi and I are checking out every baker in town, scarfing up all kinds of yummy free food. Although there's not much to enjoy about the wedding planning process, I do give this two thumbs up.

The invitations arrived today, which I'm super psyched about. They look great (says the co-designer oh so humbly) and were the first time this all felt real. I think it's having something tangible... I don't know. All I know is that today was that day when I actually said "Oh, my God- I'm getting MARRIED!" and felt more excited than crazy. I thought that was a good sign.

Steve's awesome. Steve told me to say that. Back to me...

Invites are starting to go out for pre-wedding festivities, to help fill in the time between holiday parties and the wedding itself. (This really is the greatest timing ever... It's like 3 solid months of fun.) My future sister-in-law Meg sent out beautiful invites for my bridal shower with Steve's family in Cincinnati; she's gone way above and beyond in planning this and I can't wait to celebrate with all the Patricks and Deifels and assorted Ohio family. On the home front, Worth and Adrienne have been sneaking around making plans for the bachlorette party in mid-January. After much admonishment from Adrienne, I'm learning to quit worrying about it and let them plan the party. It's not easy when you've been "Mommy Nikki" as long as I have... =)

That's all the wedding haps. Non-wedding time has been spent at various holiday parties and shopping for friends and family, a trend that will continue to play out for the next couple of weeks. I'm excited to have Alanta back stateside in a few weeks from her tour in Germany- Check out what she's been up to with an article here. Speaking of flying, I'm spending Friday night on a roundtrip jaunt to LA, garnering me the 3000 extra Delta miles I needed to get gold status for next year. A traveler's gotta make the most of those miles!

I think it's time to wrap this up- I'm all out of funny and it's time to cook dinner. Have a good one and I hope to see you all soon!! -Nikki

Thursday, November 29, 2007

Putting the leap in Leap Day.


Hey everybody. Steve here. As I said in my post yesterday, sorry for not blogging as often as I probably should. Today it occurred to me that there is something I'd like to share with all of you before you arrive at our reception in March. And we're really excited about it.

As most of you know, our wedding ceremony proper will be a very intimate gathering of our parents, grandparents and siblings on February 29th, the day before everyone gathers at our reception on March 1st. That's right. We're getting married on Leap Day, which means an anniversary once every four years. We're going to be newlyweds for a loooong time. Sweet.

In thinking about ways to commemorate our Leap Day wedding, I remembered reading an article online a year ago that stuck with me about a celebrity photographer in the 50s and 60s named Philippe Halsman. In addition to working with the surrealist painter Salvador Dali, he often did a lot work for the most popular magazines of the day, i.e. Life, Look, etc. He took an amazing photograph of Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis that I actually had in postcard form as a teenager when I was dreaming of working in comedy someday.

But I digress.

Whenever Halsman would photograph any of his subjects, be they entertainers, political figures, scientists, anyone at all... he would ask them for one final picture at the end of each session. He would ask for a jump picture.

A jump picture is basically what is sounds like: Halsman would ask his subjects to jump in the air, as high or as low as they were physically able, and he would capture that moment in time when they seemed to be defying gravity.

I mentioned this to Nikki and thought it would be appropriate to get at least one picture in this style of the two of us when we finally got around to hiring a photographer. She happily agreed, and we mentally filed that away for future use.

Cut to a few weeks later when we started plowing through all of the details it seems you need when planning a wedding and reception. When we were reminded of needing a guest book for our reception guests, Nikki began to reflect on how successful these had been at other weddings she'd attended. More often then not, we agreed, these books were less comprehensive than one would hope for, and generally had the feeling of a ledger that would get placed on a shelf to sit for years. This seemed like an opportunity that was ripe for innovation.

And then... then Nikki said something that is totally illustrative of why I want to marry this woman in the first place. It was at this point Nikki said to me "what about your jump picture idea?"

That was it. I could have kissed her on the lips. And I probably did. I do that as often as I can.

After grilling a bunch of Atlanta photographers on how we might achieve this, we had a wonderful meeting with photographer Kristi Odom, an old GT classmate of Nikki's who was just as enthusiastic as we were about the idea. Her enthusiasm and the quality of her samples made hiring Kristi a very easy decision.

So here's what we're going to do:

When everyone first arrives to the reception on Saturday night, Kristi will have set up a well-lit white backdrop that spills forward onto the floor. As guests enter, Kristi will ask everyone to sign a simple piece of white paper before heading to the white backdrop to jump for their picture, either by themselves, as a part of a couple, or in a family group shot.

Now this is very important, and I want everyone to understand where we're coming from: Nikki and I both know that we're lucky enough to have guests coming to our reception of all ages, sizes, and mobilities. We're not going to ask anyone to jump who isn't physically able to do so. It's not a contest by any stretch of the imagination. We'd rather have your picture not jumping than to have you skip getting photographed. We're just hoping everyone can get in the spirit of what we're asking for. It's going to take 30 seconds and it won't hurt a bit. Promise.

After all of the photographs are taken and processed, Kristi is going to compose everyone's photograph with the signatures on the white paper into a hard-bound coffee table book for us, a collection of our guests on that special day taking the leap after we've taken the biggest of our lives. This is going to be our guest book, our collection of our family and friends intermingled, and I'm positive we're going to enjoy looking through it often over the years.

There. This is the kind of blog post I envisioned writing when we set up this thing. I'll try to be better about updating it as much as Nikki does.

Incidentally, if you'd like to read more about Philippe Halsman, the inspiration for this whole idea, here's the link to the Smithsonian.com article I read originally (be sure to click on the link for "more pictures" when you get there).

Hope all of you are well, and drop me a line if you want further clarification on what we're doing here.

-S